DAVE SAY GROOMS TEENAGE GIRL IN WISBECH - SENTENCED TO 2 YEARS IN PRISON

In October 2016, a disturbing case of sexual grooming unfolded in Wisbech, Cambridgeshire, involving a 55-year-old man named David Say. The incident has left a profound impact on the victim’s family and has raised serious concerns about the protection of vulnerable teenagers from predatory adults.

David Say, a married man with three children and twelve grandchildren, was arrested after his inappropriate behavior was brought to light. The case came to the forefront when the victim’s mother discovered love messages from Say on her daughter’s phone, revealing the extent of his clandestine communication. The authorities confirmed that Say had been engaging in secret meetings with the girl, who was only 15 at the time, even after he was released on bail. Evidence indicated that he met her in private locations, including a hut where they spent up to ten minutes alone together.

The court proceedings revealed that Say had written love letters to the girl, further demonstrating his manipulative actions. One particularly alarming letter contained a threat from Say, stating he would take his own life if she decided to end their relationship. Despite the victim’s reluctance to provide a witness statement, Say pleaded guilty at Norwich Crown Court to the charge of meeting a child following sexual grooming. The judge, Anthony Bate, acknowledged the significant age difference of 40 years between Say and his young victim, who had affectionately called him “Pops.”

During sentencing, Judge Bate emphasized the importance of protecting teenagers from adults who seek to exploit their vulnerability. Say was sentenced to two years in prison, but there is concern that he could be released in a matter of months. The court also indicated that, upon his release, a court order might be imposed to prevent him from approaching the girl, who is now 16. However, this order could potentially be lifted once she reaches adulthood.

The victim’s father expressed deep distress over the case, stating that Say had brainwashed his daughter to the extent that she threatened to run away and live with him once he is free. The father described how Say had convinced her that he loved her, which he found utterly sickening. He revealed that his daughter had told him they shared kisses, a revelation that has left him feeling helpless and worried about losing his daughter to this man’s influence.

Meanwhile, Say’s family, including his wife, have publicly stood by him, despite the serious allegations and conviction. The case continues to evoke concern within the community of Wisbech, highlighting the ongoing need for vigilance and protective measures for young people against sexual predators.